Bullying's
always been a bit of touchy subject with people. Some greatly dislike it, some
were very badly affected by it, etc. so when I first learned that
an episode of My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic would be about the issue
of bullying, I was curious to see how they'd do it, and scared of the
reaction from fans. Let’s ignore the latter for this write up though, and say
that after I watched the episode, I was very surprised by it. Even though the
episode was clearly about bullying and overcoming it, I took away a completely
different theme from it, and one that caused me to really like the episode
for what it did. So with that in mind, I would like to offer my own
interpretation of the events of the episode titled One Bad Apple, and what I
thought a key theme of the entire experience was, and how it connects
to bullying.
Now before I offer my answer, I'm curious, what sort of moral or theme would you interpret from this scenario? What would you take away from this? Think about it for a moment, before reading what I took from it, and let's see how our opinions compare and contrast.
So, what would I say was the central theme of this episode? After much thinking, I would say it was; communication.
I found it very interesting that coming to Applejack to talk about Babs popped up numerous times throughout the episode, and every time it did, the Cutie Mark Crusaders shut it down. I thought that obviously meant something and was some sort of foreshadowing. And the way I interpreted it was, we saw this idea so much because it is exactly what was the main problem with our heroes, the Cutie Mark Crusaders never once thought of asking others for help and advice, and never once considered the situation of others, and in doing so were consumed by their own negative feelings and thoughts, so much so so that they became bullies themselves.
Think
about it, not talking to Applejack didn’t only mean that they never learned who
Babs really is, it also means that they were never able to get any advice or
help in general with their problem, and this also meant that the Cutie Mark
Crusaders were unable to share their hurt feelings. And because they went to no one for help and advice, and only dwelled on their negative feelings,
never opening up to anyone about them, they became consumed by them, so hurt
that they thought the only way to stop their pain was to cause pain to others.
Really, it’s exactly what happens when you don’t get help or don’t share your
hurt feelings, wanting instead to hold them in, which can lead you into doing
dark things, so I really liked that.
But the Cutie Mark Crusaders aren't the only ones to make the mistake of not communicating, Babs is as well! Because Bads didn't open up to the CMC about her insecurities towards being a blank flank, when push came to shove, in not sharing her feelings she became consumed by them, and sought to punish those who reminded her of herself, the CMC.
But this
isn’t the only time Babs does this. At the very end of the episode, we see Babs
tell Applejack that she’ll talk to her family (sister technically) more about her bullying. That
very line there, says it all. Babs was hurt so much by the bullying she went
through in Manehatten, and one reason for that was that she hardly told anyone
about them. By hiding her insecurities she became even more scared and afraid
of bullies and blank flanks, which led to her going down such a dark path in
the episode. If either Babs had been more open about being bullied and being
insecure about being a blank flank, or the CMC had been more open about not
liking the way Babs was treating them, then the whole mess of the episode would
have been avoided, that was the main problem, there was a lack of communication.
But communicating with others and not holding things inside wasn't the only theme here, no I thought there was a bit more to it then that. For a loss of communication isn’t the only mistake we see throughout the episode multiple times, there are also a few times in which there is a theme of jumping to conclusions. Right off the bat when Applebloom hears her cousin is coming and is a blank flank, she immediately assumes that she will happy, bouncy, and excited to see her cousin and join her club, and will be happy to be a blank flank just like her, despite the fact that Applebloom was once ashamed of being a blank flank. Even though Applebloom knows nothing about Babs nor takes in the fact that this is her very first time in Ponyville, and that she's bound to be shy and not perfectly stable, she and her friends bombard her when she arrives telling her about how she will join the Cutie Mark Crusaders and will have a good time. And when Babs isn't too excited about the whole thing, the CMC immediately think that it's because they need to show her even more cool things and be more in her face. Tying in with the main theme in such a nice way, if the CMC hadn't been so pressing on Babs at the start, and let her talk and communicate, they would have been able to learn of her insecurities of her flank, and help a lot of the problems that went down in the episode.
And when Babs decides to turn on the CMC and bully them, Applebloom again jumps to conclusions by seeing Babs as an evil pony that must be taken down, and never thinks of her side of the story and why she would be doing this. The CMC also mistakenly jump to conclusions when pondering the idea of telling Applejack about their dilemma and getting help, and again, if Applebloom hadn't tried and forced Babs to be like her in their group she might not have been so hesitant about it, and if she hadn't assumed the worst of Babs she and the CMC wouldn't of tried to get revenge, and the whole thing would of gone much better.
In the end, what saves the CMC from well, themselves, is when they unintentionally learn the truth about Babs through communication. After this, you get a nice little proof that they've learned this lesson in the fact that they then tell Babs everything in an honest fashion, telling her why they were bullies, why they didn't like her, and how they were really feeling. And as is in our very nature, when one side is able to show honest communication, it's much easier for the other to as well, and we see that exactly here, when Babs confesses what she was going through to the CMC after they confess what they were going through, and it shows how to encourage others to communicate very effectively I think; by communicating with them first.
But communicating with others and not holding things inside wasn't the only theme here, no I thought there was a bit more to it then that. For a loss of communication isn’t the only mistake we see throughout the episode multiple times, there are also a few times in which there is a theme of jumping to conclusions. Right off the bat when Applebloom hears her cousin is coming and is a blank flank, she immediately assumes that she will happy, bouncy, and excited to see her cousin and join her club, and will be happy to be a blank flank just like her, despite the fact that Applebloom was once ashamed of being a blank flank. Even though Applebloom knows nothing about Babs nor takes in the fact that this is her very first time in Ponyville, and that she's bound to be shy and not perfectly stable, she and her friends bombard her when she arrives telling her about how she will join the Cutie Mark Crusaders and will have a good time. And when Babs isn't too excited about the whole thing, the CMC immediately think that it's because they need to show her even more cool things and be more in her face. Tying in with the main theme in such a nice way, if the CMC hadn't been so pressing on Babs at the start, and let her talk and communicate, they would have been able to learn of her insecurities of her flank, and help a lot of the problems that went down in the episode.
And when Babs decides to turn on the CMC and bully them, Applebloom again jumps to conclusions by seeing Babs as an evil pony that must be taken down, and never thinks of her side of the story and why she would be doing this. The CMC also mistakenly jump to conclusions when pondering the idea of telling Applejack about their dilemma and getting help, and again, if Applebloom hadn't tried and forced Babs to be like her in their group she might not have been so hesitant about it, and if she hadn't assumed the worst of Babs she and the CMC wouldn't of tried to get revenge, and the whole thing would of gone much better.
In the end, what saves the CMC from well, themselves, is when they unintentionally learn the truth about Babs through communication. After this, you get a nice little proof that they've learned this lesson in the fact that they then tell Babs everything in an honest fashion, telling her why they were bullies, why they didn't like her, and how they were really feeling. And as is in our very nature, when one side is able to show honest communication, it's much easier for the other to as well, and we see that exactly here, when Babs confesses what she was going through to the CMC after they confess what they were going through, and it shows how to encourage others to communicate very effectively I think; by communicating with them first.
I rather
like the parallel the episode goes for here with Babs and the Cutie Mark
Crusaders. Both find themselves in a difficult situation about being bullied,
both make the mistake of not mentioning it to anyone or getting help from
others, and both as a result become bullies themselves. And I like how the CMC
aren’t even shown to be better than Babs, since they didn’t see how bad their
actions were just like Babs, they just happened to be at the right place at
the right time for Applejack to open their minds and show how wrong they have
been, which could have happened with Babs as well. It was merely a stroke of
luck that saved the Cutie Mark Crusaders, showing that, well, we make mistakes,
and you know, they’re children, who are bound to make mistakes, and sometimes those people we see as bad aren't so different from us.
And
continuing the parallel, once one party realizes the errors of their ways and
invokes the method known as communication, then the other party does the same
in response, and in both doing so, they both learn their lessons and get to the
correct path they should be on, tying the whole story together in a neat well
put together package.
In the end both parties learn to communicate more and not hide and dwell on their negative feelings, and both also learn to keep an open mind of each other and not make assumptions. With this in mind, I thought it did a very good job of getting the message across, and showing what happens when you don't communicate and jump to conclusions. It also did an excellent job of showing where these characters made mistakes, and then showing them both learn and grow towards being a better person, and then seeing the result of that newfound communication as they join as one group, no longer separated. And I also thought this tied into bullying very well, since indeed, while talking may bring about some bad consequences, there are few ways worse to respond to bullying then not telling anyone about it, and hiding your feelings. So I thought it was an excellent message to have about bullying, and pulled it off very well, in a way I can't help but relate to, and again, I'm reminded why I love this show so so much; it teaches me about myself and life, and always gives me much to think about and learn from. I hope you enjoyed this, and I'll see you for the next one, thanks for reading and ta ta for now!
In the end both parties learn to communicate more and not hide and dwell on their negative feelings, and both also learn to keep an open mind of each other and not make assumptions. With this in mind, I thought it did a very good job of getting the message across, and showing what happens when you don't communicate and jump to conclusions. It also did an excellent job of showing where these characters made mistakes, and then showing them both learn and grow towards being a better person, and then seeing the result of that newfound communication as they join as one group, no longer separated. And I also thought this tied into bullying very well, since indeed, while talking may bring about some bad consequences, there are few ways worse to respond to bullying then not telling anyone about it, and hiding your feelings. So I thought it was an excellent message to have about bullying, and pulled it off very well, in a way I can't help but relate to, and again, I'm reminded why I love this show so so much; it teaches me about myself and life, and always gives me much to think about and learn from. I hope you enjoyed this, and I'll see you for the next one, thanks for reading and ta ta for now!
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